My party (URGENT)?

Hi im 11 turning 12 in mid september. I need my party invites out early september and its nearing mid august. I'm allowed five ppl if i want a sleepover, and i guess up to 8 if i want a normal party (no sleepover). Im definatly inviting my best friends, A, B, C, D and E but im not sure if I want to have them for a sleepover and then tell my other friends that im not having a party. I like all my other friends and all but I am really not sure what I want - a sleepover with my best friends (A, B and C know each other really well cause we are all primary scholl best friends and they dont know D and E well. D and E are my new school best friends) or a day party with all my friends (besties %26amp; new school friends)





what would you do if you were in my shoes?

My party (URGENT)?
Clearly you have 2 choices. Have the day party with all of your friends or have the sleepover with your best friends.





If it was my party, I think I'd rather have the sleepover - you can always explain to your other friends that your parents only let you invite 5 people and you had to choose the people you know the longest...





Why won't your parents allow 3 extra kids to spend the night since it is your birthday? Try cutting some kind of deal with them.





One more idea - would your parents let you invite the other 3 over the following weekend?
Reply:Push the envelope ... ask for the day party .... then see if you can get a two friend sleepover the following weekend !.......


You'll never know if ya don't try !
Reply:well personally i like to have a sleep over with my best friends my b-day is in Sept to and i am having the same problem but I'm doing something like yours but if you don't invite everyone don't brag about it to the other guys well have fun at your party◊
Reply:I would first check with my parents to get their okay. Then have a party with all of my friends. The next weekend or whatever, I'd have a sleepover with my besties =]. I've done it before when I couldn't make a decision!
Reply:Best friends are more fun, plus you can hang out with them longer. SLEEPOVER! I'm 16 and 5 ppl over for a sleepover sounds really fun!
Reply:i think you should just do a big party because it can be just as fun as a sleepover. just have the girls go home a little later (9 or 10 maybe), and you can still have a ton of fun. plus, you can get to know the girls that you maybe aren't so close with a lot better. It would be good to get to know different people a little better, and you and ALL of your friends will be a closer group.





Have fun!

polish