Should I go to this party?

I'm 19 years old and I was invited by my friend to a party. I'm not that big into parties I would rather stay home and watch a movie with some friends or do something else. The reason why I don't like to party is because I don't want to drink because my heart gets messed up. I know I don't need to drink but everyone at this party is most likely going to drink. My friends don't think I drink and they have never seen me drink and as much as I want to show them that I can have a good time at a party I don't want to mess up my heart. Another thing that kind of upsets me is the fact that I would be the person driving my friends to this party. I do want to go to this party but at the same time I don't know if I should. I don't really want to drive because I always drive my friends and of course they don't have cars and they would never offer. don't get me wrong these are cool friends but sometimes they can annoy me with asking for favors etc. What would you do?





thanks

Should I go to this party?
The simple fact is that you feel used by your friends because you don't drink so they appoint you designated driver.





Why don't you go late and leave early? Or tell them your insurance doesn't cover them? Or tell them right out right that you are feeling used and abused so the taxi cab service is out of business?





People can't use you if you don't allow it. If they become upset because you aren't providing commuter service for them anymore, then honestly, they weren't your friends to begin with but truly just using you.





And who needs that?
Reply:If I was you, I'd tell my so called "friends" that you dont want to go to the party and you would rather do something else. If they have a problem with that then forget them, honestly "real" friends would respect you and not make you feel as though you have something to prove. And if you have heart problems, dont go and drink to prove something to a bunch of people which most likely wont even be around in your life in the next few years anyway. Dont be a punk and get suckered into doing things you really dont want. Either stand your ground to your friends or its time to get a new group of friends you feel me?
Reply:i dont seriously think you should go if you heart is going to get mixed up there will be plenity more parties i hope u make the right decision
Reply:If you don't want to drink then just don't and skip the party. Go home study, play some games, or just watch shows on television. Tell your friend maybe another time. Well, that's what I would do though, I'm turning 15.
Reply:I don't think that you should go. Many parties with people your age and alchohol go VERY wrong. Stay home and have a movie night.
Reply:say tat u cant come and make up a reason even tho ur lying its for a good reason
Reply:i wouldnt go. if my friends were good friends they would like me even if i didnt drink and get wild in parties. dont do it, ur just gonna get ur self in trouble! God Bless
Reply:don't destroy ur self and don't go