Stag Party - Can I get some guy's advice?

So my situation. I'm a girl. Have a very flirtatious, boyfriend. The boyfriend recently took a trip to Vancouver with about 1000 college student from around Canada for a scolastic competition, and he had blown off the competition to have fun, drink and party, which is completly fine by me, the only problem was that he had lied to me about ever going anywhere. (I found out anyways) Fine, he said he thought I would get mad, but I trust him, so I forgave the situation.





Anyways.


His friend, who is engaged is renting a house boat for a week this summer (for a stag party) at a notorious party location with an extreme party island included. Boys only, ofcourse. The problem is that his engaged friend has over the past year cheated a few times, and I believe will be a bad influence, amist drinking, bikinis, and all thats included.





I really would apprieciate a male opinion on this situation. Can a girl trust her guy at a stag? Is this a really bad situation?





Thanks!

Stag Party - Can I get some guy's advice?
the few rare guys will not cheat but I am much like the bf you are talking about... all my friends get a kick with trying to set me up to cheat on my gf... I've been good so far for 4+ months but its tough, most guys wouldn't last. The things that go on at such parties are only centered around huntin for women... with a previous history the story doesn't seem to have a very happy ending...
Reply:Guys that go away for a week like that don't deserve a nice girlfriend.





It is up to you to decide what kind of guy you want to be with. I know that most guys that would rather be with their woman, than with a bunch of boys for a week, unless they are gay or they are sleeping around with someone else.
Reply:Can a girl trust a guy at a stag? only you can decide. Can a girl be trusted at a Hen night? I'd say the chances are about even. It all depends on the people concerned I'd say. and not knowing him I cannot judge.
Reply:No don't trust him. If he is a close friend to that jerk then there are good chances that you are dating a jerk as well and have just blinded yourself to that fact. He lied to you about a trip, what else will he lie to you about. I only ever trust people who come forward with their **** personally and right away. My gf for instance made out with two guys in vegas on a trip she made there and she came back and told me within 10 minutes of seeing me and I forgave her. Unlike my ex gf who lied to me about holding hands with some dude after I found out about it and I left her and then her left her shortly after they got together.....





the thing is people who lie don't tend to change and they will continue to lie as long as it keeps them in the clear and if you are someone gullible enough to believe them then you are someone they will latch on to and lie to even more because you are predictable......





my advice to you as a guy who has been on crazy party sports teams throughout college and who has associated with frat dudes for a long time is to ditch your man. I am not the greatest person out there but I changed my ways and I got rid of all of my old friends when I realized that life was ruining my relationships.





You need to leave that fool and find someone else.





There are plenty of men in the world, don't stick by lying assholes....they are just not worth your time...





Go find a physics major. They are smart and will **** better because of it...though they may take a little training if they have no experience....
Reply:Hey, as they say, boys will be boys. I'm a married guy, but I remember those days. He's in a stage in his life where he hasn't completely matured. He's still enjoying not being married. It doesn't sound like he wants to be tied down anytime soon. I'm not going to say that he doesn't care about you. He probably does. He probably cares about you deeply, but the fact of the matter is, he's still a teenager inside and not ready to let go of his party side. The best advice I can give you dealing with a guy like that is not to worry about it. Even if he ever would cheat on you, he doesn't quite realize how much it would hurt you. If he were to hurt you, he would be very sorry about it after he did it, but he might lack the foresight to take control of his urges before it happens.





However, you know if he really cares about you. Let him be a boy for a while and let him go have fun. It's only a matter of time before he grows up completely. Let him enjoy it. If you are less constraining and just let him be, he's a lot less likely to cheat. He will appreciate the freedom more than you can imagine.