Bachelorette Party?

My friend is getting married and I am in her wedding. So far, her Matron of Honor has been doing a pretty bad job...the bride's mom had to call me and ask for me to do some things since the Matron of Honor isn't. Anyways....The matron of honor emailed me and asked for the bachelorette party if the wedding party would like to get a room at a local Casino. I said SURE! Then, she emails me saying she wants to put the bride in bride to be things and play games! then put us all in matching bachelorette party tshirts. Ok its cute but come on!!! what ever happened to going out and just having a fun time w/ your girlfriends?! I think this is so lame maybe b/c im a little older than the other people in the wedding party and my bachelorette was simple. i wouldn''t usually think the bride would be into this kind of thing either. I am now a little reluctant about going but since im in the wedding i feel obligated. should i say something or ask the bride?

Bachelorette Party?
I think that you should ask the bride what she wants and if she is not into that idea then you should tell the other girl that I don't think that the bride would like this and I understand you are trying to make it cute but let's just get together and have a good time together, but if the bride likes it then go for it!! Support your friend!
Reply:It's fun for the bride to be dressed up in stuff for the attention and she gets a ton of free drinks. I wore a nice tiara that said Bachelorette. they have sashes also that are tasteful. I wasn't much into the games. but we had fun things like penis straws to drink out of. I would just let it lose for a night it's about the bride and just making sure she has fun.
Reply:See if you can draw hints from the bride.





Games can be cute, if you do them right. Try making up a game where everyone can enjoy themselves. Casino is a good place to start. Have a scavenger hunt. Get polariods camera or digital, group the girls, give each a copy. Think of creative and funny things to put on the list eg like jumping in the pool (if any) with clothes on, taking a picture of a guy in his under wear and bringing the underwear back as proof, have elderly mam kissing one of the girls. Going to bar and taking a shot. Think of things that be funny, crazy and wild. This way everyone will have a kick out of it.





Good luck!!!!
Reply:just say in simple wards





i love you
Reply:That's how most of them are....it's not that bad. It can be fun, and the bride will enjoy the attention she gets. It's all done in good spirits and most of the people you run into while you're out will respect the bride and just add to the fun. It's the only time you CAN go out and be dressed so ridiculous! Just go with it and have a good time!
Reply:I think you should just go with the flow. People do that all time, and its a cute idea! The bride will be appreciative of whatever kink of party you throw for her, and she will love the attention she will get as the "bride to be".





Just roll with it, and have fun with it.
Reply:Unfortunately most bachelorette parties are like that these days. I went to one for a 20 year old and one for a 35 year old. They were both like that. Warn the bride, see what she wants and fill in the MOH.
Reply:I would totally check with the bride, give her a little heads up. If she doesn't like it, you can still change it around now. Otherwise, she might get stuck with a bachelorette party she doesn't particularly care for.

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